Wooing breezy February

Hola!

Finally, after a year of silence I was able to press some letters again here. Yes, it's February again.

I went to our local city hall early Tuesday morning. I was to file an affidavit regarding my grandmother's lost senior citizen card. A staff in the office called my attention and asked me what I needed. I have with me an affidavit of loss which was hot from the notary. He told me that my grandmother needed to sign it first. Then, he asked me random questions. He was someone around late twenties going thirty. Physically he was ROUND and bald. He had this weird smile while asking where I work and such. I answered his questions courteously, then left. 

(Random thought) So, this is not a GGSS (Gandang Ganda Sa Sarili) moment. I just thought, looks do matter. I remembered the young dashing King David. He probably was not noticed if he has a round barbaric appearance. For the record, I am not a ten. I am not also that responsible with taking care of my looks. That morning, I combed my hair, pat powder on my face and had lipstick on my lips. I need to look older for people in the city hall to treat me like an adult. I do look like an teen in her earlier years.  

Anyway, I went straight to the market. I bought some stuff for my grandmother's store. Basically, this morning was filled with errands. I also bought fruits. There was a stall with pomelo. I bargained for it of course and when I was contented with the price I bought two. The man there was very kind and he gave the peeled one on display (Yay! for freebies!).

I can't help but compare the men that I met earlier today. The first was some presko who approached me in a creepy way. The other one was just doing his job and then eventually left something memorable...

Well, these tips were for the guys out there:

1. Don't/ Never approach someone and ask them like an interviewer. 

      - This will more likely creep them up and a big turn off. It will also make you look like FC (feeling close). Like the first guy that I met that morning.

2. When they need something "just" attend to the need. period.

    - Don't make follow up after that. Let them approach you again, which was surely bound to happen. Girls who were confident enough or has the "ganda factor" (which I know guys will notice well) would surely be surprised that you didn't hit on them and make them wonder why... believe me this will be a good sign ;)

3. After attending to the need let them feel that you can approach them "again" anytime.
   - Don't just turn your back on them like a cool snub. It may be true that you should not hit on them on the first meeting but apply courtesy. Either you were able to help her with the need or not but at least say goodbye or say they can approach you again if they need anything else.

4. Smile before she leaves. 
    - You don't flash that killer smile when you meet her. Apply self control. Flash that amazing smile before she leaves. This will guarantee her that she can come back anytime. It's better than saying see you again.

5. (Optional) If you have anything to give (freebies) offer her some.
  - No one says no to free things. This will make her remember you without saying it. She will also think that this gesture's sweet.

*Tips here will make it look like the girl's after you. You only hit on them on the succeeding meetings. This will make them think that finally you noticed them. It will boost their confidence and think that someone who's a snub like you was able to like them. Saying... "Oooh I think he liked me for who I am not for what I look like blah blah... "

Chivalry and courtesy still makes a girl swoon. When you don't hit on them like a ravaging animal this will surely leave an impression on them... That you are different; unlike what they believed that all men were animals. You're different....


However, if she DOESN'T like you... well don't force it boy....